The Law of Attraction
My personal journey in learning to understand myself better really began when I became interested in the Law of Attraction. I was fascinated by what I was told, especially the part where I was told how I could manipulate this law to get whatever I wanted. What a gift....if I could understand this one Law I could have anything I wanted I thought! Looking back I laugh at my naivety!
What I have learnt is that everything is back to front. I was taught that the key to the Law of Attraction was to focus on 'feeling good' the more I felt good, the more good I would attract into my life, if I felt bad I was attracting 'bad energy'. Sounds easy enough (ha! ha!) so I
religiously worked at feeling good but still the things I wanted weren't manifesting....what was I doing wrong?
Determined to find the answer I have finally come to understand that it is nothing to do with feeling good. You can feel as good as you like, if you do not work on your internal beliefs, you will never alter your core vibration. If you don't internally believe you are worthy, this will be where your vibrational frequency is set and this is the level you will manifest at. The interesting thing to understand here is that 90% of the "Law of Attraction" teachers, so called experts, don't truly understand the Law they are teaching you either! They are making money 'spinning' us something we all want to know!
Possibly the best tip I can give you is the wonderful thing about the Law of Attraction is that it is working all the time, it never stops, so when something isn't manifesting, it's a wonderful opportunity to go back inside and work out what resistance is in you because something inside you is stopping the flow of good coming to you. We are actually working in reverse, when something isn't mainfesting, it is because we are stopping the flow of good, it's nothing to do with attracting bad energy! In short, don't blame outside, come back inside! And begin to understand that the Law of Attraction is a great barometer for you to work on yourself and learn to love self.
The other tip is that loving self is really the key....all we do in life is to get approval and love from others because really deep down we do not love ourselves.....herein lies the rot....if you don't love yourself this is where your vibration sits.....you are saying to the Universe you are not worthy and this is where you will stay.
And finally the secret of attraction really lies in learning to love now, something that sounds simple enough but in actual fact is quite the opposite to achieve.
Man's mind is so focused in the past and in the future. We believe that we will be happy when......, utopia is over there, never right under our feet. We hold onto beliefs and thoughts that keep us in the past....."my ??? told me I would never amount to anything", "I've done bad things in my past so I am a bad person" even if we have learnt the lessons of our past and stopped 'being bad' we hold onto these beliefs. All this does is keep us in an internal belief state of 'I'm not worthy'. Think about it...."when I have my car I will be happy" says clearly you are not happy, and the same goes with believing old thoughts and patterns.
The gold is in learning that the only thing we truly have is now. The past is gone and the future hasn't even come. And the real secret of attraction is learning to love every minute of now because in truth that is all you have, the rest is an illusion....incredible isn't it....and so obviously simple we completely overlook it. We stay obsessed in the past and the future and completely overlook now. Learning to live in now and become a lover of what is real is the key that unlocks the door to freedom.
